Be confident.
I don’t care what you’re confident in. But just find what it is that makes you genuinely self-confident, calm, comfortable. And then shine with it.
Genuinely confident people do not try to bring others down. They do not lie and hurts others as much.
They dream. And they dream beyond what’s even possible for them at that moment. But they have to go there, wherever that place is, and will be true to others along the way.
So find what it is that makes you genuinely self confident. Do it and keep doing it.
Then let go of the rest.